Adaptations of beloved novels often face the immense challenge of living up to the depth of their source material. It Ends With Us, the 2024 film adaptation of Colleen Hoover’s bestselling novel of the same name, attempts to translate a story of love, abuse, and resilience to the big screen. And while it strives to do justice to its heavy themes, the question remains: does it succeed in capturing the raw emotional intensity that die-hard fans of the book have come to expect?
This review isn’t meant to be a debate between the book and the movie, because we all know the book is always better, but if a film doesn’t connect with its original audience, then who is it for?
As someone who has experienced an abusive relationship first-hand, I appreciate that the movie handles the subject with nuance and care. However, it didn’t resonate with me as deeply as the book — or other stories with similar themes — did. In fact, my sold-out theater didn't have one wet eye in the house.
While the script remains surprisingly faithful to Hoover’s novel, it feels emotionally hollow — the narrative hits you at face value, moving from one plot point to the next without the heavy emotional impact this story demands. Without Blake Lively’s incredibly powerful performance (and I mean, damn, this might showcase her range more than anything else), I doubt any of the emotional moments would resonate below the surface.
For me, the cast is hit or miss. Blake Lively undeniably embodies Lily Bloom (and Isabela Ferrer as young Lily Bloom is almost uncannily similar in appearance). Jenny Slate is a breath of fresh air and delivers a surprisingly strong performance where it counts. Justin Baldoni might be a better filmmaker than actor, but he gives a solid effort, though his chemistry with Lively isn’t nearly as electric as it is with Brandon Sklenar, who may not deliver much in terms of depth but looks damn fine in a denim jacket.
Despite its over 2-hour runtime, It Ends With Us rushes through the plot, barely allowing enough time to process and feel Lily's trauma. The film doesn’t delve into the complexities of being in a relationship as toxic as Lily and Ryle’s, nor does it give viewers enough time to truly connect with any of the characters on a deeper level. Instead of experiencing Lily’s story with her, we’re watching it through a fogged-up window at double speed.
If you or anyone you know is struggling with domestic abuse, please don’t hesitate to seek help. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is ready to listen and provide support 24/7. Call 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788. Everyone deserves love free from abuse.
